like everybody else ( i am adding that line....because often i get the feeling that people think...hey what the big deal...this happens to me as well....yes it does...and it happens to me as well...and when it does....i love to write...and it does not mean...it hasnt happened before...its just that...this time...i feel like writing...)people come seeking advice and pouring their heart...
and sometimes...being a good listener...and sometimes being stupid enough to leave my work to listen to them...i get enough of this crap....sometimes...more than i can digest...
and everytime...i used to comfort people...
but now, when i have changed...and tell people what i should be telling and not what they should hear.....i find it people absolutely going cranky.....their reaction varying from....a silent walk out to hey....why the heck am even speaking to u...if u dont want to understand...
yes...i do understand them...even today....but i am just not ready to give them the advice they want to hear...
this morning, one guy came and complained abt his professor to another of his friend......ofcourse this time...i was there by accident...
i told him....u can complain...and get frustrated...or be cool and think what best u can make out of the situation....
and he told me...i have nothing more to say...since u r who u r...and yeah...u dont convince me...
ofcourse, if i had joined in his verbal bashing of his guide..if i had said...yes..yes...i have heard to...ur proffesor stinks...and blah....blah...he would have felt great...
but i simply cant do that crap anymore...
i have grown up...
so people...if u want to hear the truth come to me....and if u r seeking comfort...please leave me...i am no more that guy...who says yes to every shit....
