what does it matter

what does it matter, if u die tomorrow.....the world will just move on fine...well without u....few will shed tears, fewer will remember, but with time, ur existence would have become debatable....

what does it matter....
like dogs, we are born, we eat, we mate, and w die.
In dogs we call it mating. in humans we call it making love.
in dogs we call it intinct. in humans we call it learning.
finally we die, thats the ultimate truth, with all our actions, whatever it may be, making no sense at all.
some prefer, not to question thus, and try to soak each moment in the moment. by finding meaning in love - girl or money or social cause. by finding meaning in the satisfaction of the moment. Conveneinetly forgetting the bigger picture, that it does not matter......
nothing matters....
no action...
no love....
no cause...
finally we all die, and thats how sad life is.......
go, i tell all the people, find a meaning, and live a hypocritic life. put a sham.....but i tell u...it does not matter

love is meaningless. only relationship is meaningful

ofcourse, i have stated before, in my first post, that people have stopped thinking. so it came as no surprise, to find people, finding themselves at crossroads, deciding to hold on to whatever was thought by other people and passed on to them, rather than to think.
and precisely, i could be accused of passing on my thought. but more than beliveing me, i want people to think. if, and what a big if it is, people do start thinking, it will become obvious, the things i am stating here.
ok, let me start with an example ( i would like to mention though, examples are the worst way of explaining things, because examples can be misleading, and are often misunderstood. but i use it, for lack of imagination from the part of my readers) .
We love our parents. right? we tend to belive we love our parents. but look closely, isnt it obvious we love our parents, because they are our parents, rather than who they are as individuals or who we are individuals. we love them, for the relationship that binds us.
ofcousre, there are parents, who dont love their children as much. but do the children, start hating them. no. not until, the relation stops having meaning. that is to say, we love our parents, till the relationship ceases to have meaning.
more often we see, we find children, once grown up, married, they move on, and scarcely care for their parents. why? is it that the love for their parents has grown less. no. not at all. the relationship has lost its significance.
i ask everybody, how can we love some person today, and hate the same person other day. is it love so fragile. so tangible. does our love depend upon how the other person behaves to us. ( if yes, then i would like to remind u, u r not talking abt love, u r talking abt newton's third law of action reaction)
and if that is the case, what does it mean to love a person indefinitely, forever. it is meaningless.
listen, we need a relation. and that is what we strive towards. let me ask u, again, why do we love a person. the easiest reason is, i dont know, i just love a person. when most things, in life, have a reason. how come love doesnt? is it because, we are hypocrites. we are cowards. we fail to acknowledge, we need a relation ( which is very tangible, and materialistic) and as soon as we use reltion, we think of physical relation, and feel ashamed of ourselves.
but the relation i am talking abt, is the need to bond with others. the need to identify ourselves and differentiate ourselves from others. we love others, for our sake. for the sake of relationship. because alone we feel insecure.
suppose, today, ur beloved, hurts u. in a way, it is irraparable. u have simply decided not to talk to the person ever again. u still think of the person. why? is it love? if it is love, isnt love all about forgiving. isnt love all about compromises. isnt love mutual. infact how could the person u love so much, hurt u. because, love can never hurt ( i am not talking abt love not being reciprocated) . love simply is. then why do we feel hurt and move on. its not because love has suddenly faded away. its because, we find the relationship, we are in is no more sustainable.
as an individual, its relationship we seek. as a kid, we sought parents, teh we sought friends, then lover, then wife, then children. love is just a bonus. whther love is there or not, we will pursue the same path. ( dont the parent love their children, no matter how bad the kids are. is it love. or is it because they are their son's and daughters ( relation) . )
think again.
looka t ur memories they are filled with sweetness and bitterness, arising out of a relation. u forget the love they gave u. ( can u remember the sweet lullaby ur mother sang every night, can u remember the warmth of her smile, the first time ur beloved spoke to u.....no all u remember is the warmth of the relation they provided, the comfort, the assurance )
even from a evolutionary point of view, what advantage, does love provide. none at all. ist only the relation, that makes life so much advatntages

love is meaningless. only realtionship is meaningful.

ofcourse most of u would find it difficult to separate the two, love and relationship. the obvious question would be - "isnt it a fact that love breed relation. where love ceases to exist, doesnt the relationship die?"
i still maintain love is meaningless. its existence is a pathetic lie, to which we hold on for our own seemingly meaningless life. its only relationship that fulfills our life and gives meaning to our existence.....
( watch out this space for the complete arguements)

love has no meaning. only relationship has

Since i am just discussing the main themes of the major philosophy i am developing, which i am writing as a book, here i just present a brief sketch alone. so i leave the natural unnatural topic, and move on to the next theme. ofcourse for previous posts, kindly see the comments and please feel free to ask questions. since i have mentioned before, most of u have stopped thinking, i have no problem doing the extra thinking!!!
watch out for the explanation of the topic, in the next post

reject every thing unnatural -2

why reject unnatural. because we are in an age where that is the only option left. science proves nothing. it simply says, this works so and so because that works so and so. similarly maths prove nothing. magic never did. logic never can.

so in this wilderness, when we are in lookout for some kind of support, where everything - our logic system, our consciousness is a suspect ( whose existence and reality can be questioned), isnt it natural to reject everything unnatural.
by unnatural, i dont mean man-made. if an ant makes an ant hill, we call it natural, so if a man makes a house, why shouldnt we call it natural too. isnt man part of nature?
when i say, unnatural, i talk about things that are against are nature. let me explain. if we see somebody dying on the road, our first instinct is to help. but, gradually, we have seen so many cases of police interference, and nuissance arising of this, that we seldom step out ot help them as time passes by it becomes natural for us to not help them, and simply to walk away. but this is what i call as unnatural. to act against our instincts, to be conditioned. because the natural reaction comes, when we find our own relatives on the road dying....we tend to help them.
in rejecting unnatural, we also claim all are equal as all our natural. to differentiate between natural and unnatural behaviour, ask urself, if u would act the same way in other circumstances. if in all circumstances, the answer is yes, then yes the act is natural. or else it is unnatural.
ofcourse, like all philosphers, i reiterate, it wil be difficult to follow. to tiring to ask again and again, what is natural and what is unnatural and act upon them. but as time passes by, u will become accustomed to selecting natural things, that this will come out naturally

reject everything unnatural.

i tell u, and i tell u because u have stopped thinking long ago, reject everything unnatural. ofcourse, it would seem a wise question to ask what i refer to as natural and unnatural. and since u have stopped thinking long ago, let me elucidate. everything, that makes u queasy is unnatural. a forced smile, second thoughts, compromises, dutybound work, everything, that is not natural is unnatural. reject them.
throw away the veil.
accept things that are only honest and pure.
ur first work would be to identify what are natural and what are unnatural.
ofcourse i will that to u, since u have stopped thinking, but before that i have to tell u why reject unnatural. i will explain that in the next post.