ofcourse most of u would find it difficult to separate the two, love and relationship. the obvious question would be - "isnt it a fact that love breed relation. where love ceases to exist, doesnt the relationship die?"
i still maintain love is meaningless. its existence is a pathetic lie, to which we hold on for our own seemingly meaningless life. its only relationship that fulfills our life and gives meaning to our existence.....
( watch out this space for the complete arguements)
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hmmmm nice thought......
love and relationship go hand in hand....there's no meaning to any relationship which does not contain love in it but guess u can possibly love someone without necessarily having any relationship...that's what i think ;-)
whoa!!! another philisophy which took me aback!
well.. another argument:
you said:
" its only relationship that fulfills our life and gives meaning to our existence....."
don't u think that what actually fulfills life is 'love'? We make relatives and fall into relationships only coz we need love. If ur friend starts hating u, n no love remains in ur relationship, then that relationship would break, wouldnt it?
so i think that love is what governs a relationship..
love may be an abstracy entity, but never meaningless..
waiting 4 u to expand ur post further..
could be true,,
relationship without love is meaningless
thank u dear fellow bloggers for the thoughtful ideas sprinkled here.
i would like to pint that i am doing no comapariosn here between love and relationship, nor am i fighting out - love without a relation and a relation without love. that is not my objective. i just want to say, in a relationship, we dont seek love ( love may exist, even without love relationship may not exist ( arguably). all i am saying is, in a relationship, its relationship alone that is meaningful. it gives reason to our existence. love is simply meaningless.....
well, reading other comments, i find tht i precisely wana say the same thing tht pranay has already pointed out.
how can love be meaningless in a relationship ven it is d base of most relationships.
also thre can b instances whre u love someone even tho no relationship exists between u two, u dont talk to d person, u dont see him/her but still u love him/her. and for tht matter how exactly u define love? n though a definition may b really difficult, but i see it as a state whre the happiness of d person concerned is imp for u...at times even at ur own cost
but still, may b i havnt got ur point completely. do tell us more abt it in ur next post.
cheers :)
dont try to write any book
hmm...lets say thers no love..its a lie, agreed....whats the basis of this relationship that u postulate??
@viraj- relationship is not something intangible. u dont start hating a person in a jiffy. even if i have a wronged my beloved, my relationship will hold each other to each other, though she will love me little less....it is sad, man has been reduced to a non thinking being, where every emotion is conveniently attributed to love, even where love is not a cause. thanks a ton, dude, though for taking time to read and presnt ur ideas. it means a lot. ofcourse i will present my arguements in a day or two, just got held up with my thesis.....
@)unpretentious diva - why so? well, i am writing a book. and indeed i will
@hakuna matata ( i love that song......absolutely great...for sometime i had used this name for my orkut profile too..) i am not saying there is no love. or love does not exist. my arguement is love is meaningless. what gives meaning to our life is relationship. will soon present my post. thanks.
thres nothing like loving less dude...u either love or u dont...how in d world can u quantify it?
and when u wrong ur beloved u still hold on just coz of love. thts wat i believe.
and how can u say tht love is meaningless?
i hav felt it to give meaning to my life even tho relationship is nt thre...nor do i hope to hav ne kinda of relationship in future. nor do i want it nemore.
but my love was d best of me...something i m proud of; even though it couldnt be translated into ne relationship. i still dont feel guilty abt it. how in this situation can u say tht love is meaningless?
thres one more ques tht comes to my mind...wat according to the u happens to the realationship and to love ven the person concerned is no more thre in this world?
whenever u reply to this query of mine, plz do scrap me on orkut.
cheers :)
hmm.. i'm still trying to figure out the meaning. you can see that in my posts on kaia and me. the answer is either very simple or it does not exist.
PS: thanks for your comments
@setu, u r right, the answer is either simple or does not exist. here the answr is very simple. only people have confusd themselves. and confusion is like cobweb, too messy to remove
@viraj, hey thanks dude for ue valuable arguements. i am not using orkut any more. just created this acct t promote my blog than to communicate. and also i got two more of ur comments on my mail, but i dont know why they are not appearing here. ofcourse my next post will clear ur doubts, so please keep checking this blog. all i just want to say is, what u hold on to, generally in life, what u think is love, is actually relation. no no i am not renaming or playing with words. ur love for any person, however exciting, does no good to u. only a relation gives meaning to ur life.
and yeah, when i said, u cant prove anything, it does not mean u have to prove something. probably u could read keirkegard, and his concept of leap of faith. i will answer all ur questions in the next post. please do ask questions, so that it will help me write without any ambiguities.
love
true but still love does matter my case for example i love a girl for some 7 years and she dont so no relationship but the love i have for her definitely matters
U need not be in relation to love a person. for eg Mr X loves sachin or dravid, for their sporting skills and there is no relation...
arrey baba...when will u guys understand....i am not saying, that u need to be in a relation to love a person!!! please read the post again. and the next one too
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